Do you feel like you are Stereotyped?

I did not grow up in the 50’s or 60’s yet I feel like we are going through all the hate and discourse that was spreading like wildfire today. I do think a lot has to do with the media. Who seems to make it a point to always show is the one person not happy with something. And that one person somehow represents the many. No I am not talking about the president. I am talking about how the media always focus on any one person not happy about anything. Anyways that is not the point of my blog today.

I want to know have any of you ever been stereotyped? I have. I was once followed into a changing room and stopped before I left the store and forced to remove my clothing because the person did not see me put them back up. It was very embarrassing especially considering what I had on and what I was accused of stealing there was no way I would have been able to steal anything. I was not apologized to just a, ” there’s nothing here, she’s good to go. “.

Any of you ever been treated differently because of the way you look?Have any of you ever been stereotyped?

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Just keep trying

I could not walk the first time I tried

I crawled,scraped my knee, sometimes I cried

I rode a bike, but I fell more times than not

I kept getting back on,because sometimes trying is all you got

True you will not succeed in everything you do

Just keep trying eventually, your hard work will reward you

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Get Fit

Today is the day I have decided to get fit

First I need to pick out the perfect outfit

Next I need to find my tennis shoes

I’m getting excited thinking about all the weight I can loose

Okay the first mile is not that bad so far

Did I mention that I still driving in my car

My God this trip is taking way too long

Forget it, I’ll stay fat and happy, I’m going back home

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Close your eyes

take a deep breath


can you feel me

I’m here

inhale the air

feel the sun on your face


I can hear you

I’m here

It’s okay

calm down


I’m here

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Week 6 Challenge: Do not believe a lie because it sounds good

The need to believe a lie can be strong especially during trying times. When everything is falling apart, when the sun has not shone for years,the winter is cold, there is no job on the horizon, the bills need to be paid, when he keeps coming home late, it is hard not to believe a lie because we need to believe.

You know that feeling you get after you get the call about a job and you go in and give that great interview and they tell you that they are going to call you and they never do. Don’t you wish they would say right there on the spot, “No I think we can find someone better.” than letting you walk out of that interview thinking you got a job. Leading you on with a false smile (a lie)

This happens in relationships everyday, we believe our partner when they say they are going to try to do better. “I want do that again,” and they do it again and again always saying that they try.

If nothing else rings true to you in this blog remember this , actions speak louder than words. Anyone can promise you a good life everyday, but what are they doing to make it happen except saying the words.

What have you been lied to about and you believed everyday? My ex promised everyday that he would try to stop drinking. He realized as long as he said the words he didn’t have to stop. Don’t be like me.

May you learn to believe the truth

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