Are you being honest with you?

The truth of the matter is truth hurts. Many of us do not like to see the person we really are,therefore we pretend to be something we think is acceptable. Well we use to be like that,now the true us is out there. And other people are saying, ” This is not who we are, “. Is that statement true? Have we always been the monster that hides in our own closest ‘s soul. Think about this,at one time,and this is true, slave owner would rape and or kill their slaves right before they went to church. They praised God and saw no fault in the crimes they committed because in their minds that did not count. It was normal to beat people and go about your day. We are back to those days people. Many of you reading this are greatly offended. But why, surly you are not like these evil people I am speaking of. If any of you ever watched the movie A time to Kill,you might know the point I am getting at. Imagine if all the stuff that is going on with the immigrants where white children.

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Right now we are the people from the Phill Collins song ,In the air tonight

. We are watching America drowning in hate and fear and we just turn away and pretend it does not exist. This hate is not a bill. We can’t just ignore it and think it will go away. We need to face what scares us. See if we can fix it. Not avoid it. And or bully it away. Or wish it back to the ” good old days, ” that was only good for white men. Even women were reserved to just sit at home and told to be content to be barefoot and pregnant. While the men who were supposed to be the bread winners ,screwed anything that moved or had a vagina ,while quoting the bible, ” God said be fruitful and multiply.

I’m sure I offended the many. And I do not care. We need to see and acknowledge what we are,were,and what we could be if we stop pretending. Yes I aware that I am all over the place with this blog. I had a lot to spit out. I was gagging from holding it all in.

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Still Standing

The old trailer down the road

sits on an abandon lot

The windows are broken, the grass

over grown,a house people forgot

It use be a big beautiful mansion

that was built next to the trailer’s land

So pretty was it, glorious to look at

surly a house for a rich man

Yet a storm came through, bringing

lightning and thunder as if on command

And swept the mansion away as for

the trailer,well it still stands

You are stronger than think you are.

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That moment you realize

There is a always a moment in

your life when you know

where everything changed

That moment before you say

“I do,” something causes you to pause

making your thought rearrange

That moment of hesitation before

you ask that question you really

don’t want to know the answer to

That moment you come

home early from work and you

partner is so startled and surprised

That moment you realize evertyhing

up until this moment

has all been lies

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Her approval

There is something that no matter

age,race, religion income

or station in life

A woman is constantly fighting

for the approval of  their mom

despite being a good wife

 

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3 Signs your in a toxic relationship

There are 4 types of relationship we can have they are: family, friendship,casual, and romantic. Each can play a significant part of our lives. If these are good relationships,life can be great. On the other hand if any one of these are not so good staying in the bed all day alone seems like the best thing to do.

Below are 3 signs you could be in a toxic relationship.

  1. When you hear the person name you get sad, or angry in other words you feel some type of way. Think about when you first started dating someone,just the sound of their name would make you smile, even daydream. If you feel the opposite of that for a long time something is definitely not right. Talk to your partner of friend if possible and tell them what is causing friction between the two of you and see if the problem can be fixed.
  2. You can’t be yourself. All of your friends notice that you act different around your partner. If you are constantly anxious,sad, or nervous in their presence, something is wrong. This typically happens if your partner has wild mood swings and you are unsure how to act in order not to make them react in negative manner .
  3. Play the victim. No matter what they do you,they are the victim. If they drink too much. It’s your fault becasue you keep nagging them. If they spend all their money it’s your fault becasue because they needed to spend all that money to buy beer becasue you want let him go out and drink. So they have to buy a lot of beer for the house.

If you feel you are in a toxic relationship try to talk to the person first. If that does not work try your best to get out. Sometimes it only gets worse. Trust me I know.

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Why do you love/hate something/someone

Love can be complicated and simple, and sad and happy ,joyful and full of sorrow all at once. Yet in the same breath hate can also bring forth those same emotions.

These two words both have four letters and both end with the letter e as if it signifies an end. I love you period. I hate you period. But truth be told those two words are only the beginning.

I smile when I think of you. I cry when I think of you. I dream when i think of you. I get angry when I think of you. Do I love you or hate you?

People I write to calm the voices in my head. Perhaps some of you have felt this way whether about love or the voices in your head. Let me know what you are thinking.

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