Is business WordPress worth the cost?

People I have not been using wordpress for that long, and I keep getting emails from them encouraging me to upgrade to business. I know that wordpress is a business and that they are just trying to make money. I get that.What I want to know do any of you regret starting off with a business plan. I would like some honest input here.

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Just wanted to say thanks

Sometimes I am surprised that people even read my blog. Yet sometimes I am like “what why aren’t more people reading my great blog, (LOL)”. Then I realize “hey girl you are just getting started more people will soon see just how great you are. ” We have to believe in ourselves,and be happy with the right now. And that people is what I write about today. THANKS all of you that take the time to read my blog. I read many of your blogs to. And they are great. Guys keep doing what you are doing.

Another thing I want to say is that there are many of you bloggers whose blog I follow that I am not notified about when you write a new blog. So if I follow your blog and you get no feedback from me it is because I am not getting your blogs. Hopefully this problem will be fixed soon.

Again THANKS guys.

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So what is the Sunshine Blogger Award?

I’ve only been a blogger for less than a year,and I must admit as with most bloggers I think my content is so important I will have Q tons of followers in no time. I was wrong. Make no mistake. I am happy with the people that do read what I have to say. So what am I getting at. Okay here goes. When I started writing I started seeing all these people getting nominated for an award. This may be a dumb question,but does anyone actually win. And if they win what are they winning. People please don’t get mad with me but if you do ……well get over it. But what is the point of the nomination. Make know mistake just 2 days ago I too was nominated and I was very happy. I felt good . And I took all the time to write a response and notify the bloggers whom inspires me. Later I started to think about it all. It kinda feels like a pyramid scheme,except no one is stealing money. More like in America where everyone gets a participating trophy. When you are little and everyone gets a trophy, we are all happy. As we get older we realize there has to be a winner. We can all be equal in life,yet that is not the same as standing above it all. I hope all of you understand what I am trying to say.

So can someone please explain the Sunshine Blogger Award. And if there is no winner and if there is no winners let’s figure out a way to vote for one of some. That’s just a thought.

On another note I have two questions I would like to propose. As I’ve mentioned before, is there anyone out there interested in writing an anthology book with several other authors,with the hopes of getting a book deal? 2. Would any of you be interested in a true poetry contest? With different categories and actually winners. Maybe even a cash prize( depending on the number of entries. Just a thought. Let me know. Let other people know.

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Sunshine Blogger Award Nomination #1 ever! Whuu whooo!

As with many things in life, this comes as a surprise. But all the same thank you Mr.A. of for nominating and or picking me for this blog award.Though let’s face it, I do not often spread sunshine. But I do love to read and write. And there is something about his blog that truly fascinates me. I tend to always gravitate toward manly men. Perhaps because sometimes I can really be a tomboy.

Anyways, I am happy with the thought, since I have only been writing a blog for about 8 months. I mean I think I started in July of 2018. I wrote 2 blogs in that month and became completely overwhelmed. I do better know. I write to turn the crazy off in my head. And part of me wants other people to know out there that if they feel a little disconnected and a little off in the head, perhaps that is normal. As long as the feeling pass.

**** Now for the questions*****

  • Tell us about the last time you listened to what your inner voice has to say and the last time you didn’t? I always talk to myself. Always. Since I spent a lot of time by myself, I find myself talking out loud all the time
  • What do you care most about, outside of yourself? Tell us how does caring for this helped you trust yourself more? I love my family. My true first love was my nephew. Now that I have 2 children of my own the love is a bit deeper. Before my Nephew I did not know how to love nor could I even say the words.
  • Tell us about the things you want yourself to want? I don’t know that I can answer that. I am a simple person.
  • How do you approach non-fiction reading? Do you relate or make disagreements with what the author has to say? Do you try to have a conversation with the thing you are reading? I do not often read non-fiction, however when I do tend to do both. I can relate to the author on somethings. And then completely disagree with them on something else. I believe our past shapes our beliefs.
  • What are your controversial opinions and why do you believe them? If it’s not worth talking about publicly, may you tell us why? I believe that women should have control over their own bodies. I became pregnant after a failed tubal ligation 3 years after my first born. The world does not treat pregnant women fair. The man will get a raise for a larger family. I woman gets less hours for the same reason
  • If a man that is dear to you (dad, husband, boyfriend, brother), help someone that is viciously being attacked. Would you be proud of him for helping or be angry with them for putting himself in harm’s way? Why can’t I be both.
  • Which men’s style profile would you prefer, a classic gentleman, a lumber sexual or a rockstar? I like a man that can change it up. But if you are going to be a rock star. Go all the way. But there is something about a rugged looking man.
  • Which male pop icon you think is the epitome of manhood? Tell us the traits that he has that makes you say so? Lenny Kravitz and Tupac
  • Who is sexier, a frugal man or a generous man? Both, I like a man that does not feel the need to impress with how much he has spent on anything. I like a man that is smart with his money.
  • As a man, what are your thoughts of me based on my writing and what you know about me? You seem multidimensional which is great. Perhaps you like the outdoors, yet when you need to you will dress as a true gentleman (cloak of desire) to fed a carnal need. And look for a temporary woman.
  • Lastly, the “Mr. A being Mr. A” question – Does size matter? I mean you no disrespect, I won’t feel bad if you choose not to answer. Oh you do mean to disrespect, but sometimes that could be fun. You just have to know what you’re doing.

There I hope I have answered all your questions. Thanks for nomination. It was fun, And I never want to do this again. So below are my nominees and the questions and the rules

Here are my nominees

The Rules:

Thank the blogger who nominated you.

Answer the 11 questions the blogger asked you.

Nominate new blogs to receive the award and write them 11 new questions.

List the rules and display the Sunshine Blogger Award in your post/or on your blog.

Notify the nominees about it by commenting on one of their blog posts.


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